Talking Dirty is Hot Foreplay - Learn Erotic Talk For More Exciting
Ever wonder why phone sex is such a big
business? Guys spend many dollars a minute for hot, dirty talk from lusty
women. And women swoon over a sexy voice and devour romance novels with
descriptive scenes of seduction. Although most women and men tend to be shy
expressing their erotic desires, we all love to hear a sexy voice focused on
arousing us. With a few techniques, you can learn how to use your voice as a
powerful aural aphrodisiac. Talking dirty is hot foreplay when you discover
your special language of love.
Talking dirty is not just about using
naughty or even filthy words. It is about the emotions and desires you want
to convey and express. Depending upon the context, you may want to scream
profanities in unbridled passion or whisper the same words in public as a
flirtatious hint of your frisky intentions. Consider the sultry whisper of a
seductress, the harsh command of a dominatrix or the ecstatic moans of a porn
star. You can stimulate your lover's erotic imagination with explicit and
descriptive detail or seduce them with simple phrases spoken in a sexy tone.
To be effective, your erotic talk needs to
seem natural to you so that you feel both comfortable and confident in what
you say and how you say it. This comes from practice and by becoming more
aware of what you both like. Some words and phrases may feel and sound
awkward at first. Here are a few ways to practice talking dirty:
- When you are reading or watching a movie, keep
track of sexy words used in romantic or arousing scenes. Make a list of
erotic phrases you can use and, when alone, practice saying them out
loud in a sexy voice. Get familiar with how the words sound and how they
make you feel.
- Get yourself some erotic literature that
includes descriptive terms for various body parts and sex activities.
Include material your lover would read. Read short, steamy passages out
loud and experiment with different ways to make them sound seductive as
you speak them. Try whispering, lowering or raising your tone, using a
throaty purr or even speaking with an accent.
- Write out a fantasy or short erotic story
involving yourself and your lover. Weave in words and phrases you find
arousing (from above). Read the story out loud to yourself using
different types of voice to see which versions you find most arousing.
- Write out a list of sexual compliments (e.g.
"I love the way you ...", "It feels so good when you
...") and desires (e.g. "I want your hot tongue ...",
"Use your fingers to ..."). Say them out loud the way you envision
using them. You may actually want to practice these while masturbating
to feel how the words add to your arousal.
Once you feel confident with your aural
skills, here are some ways to use erotic talk to spice up your sex life:
- While in a public situation, seductively
whisper how you want to ravish your lover. Build the anticipation with
naughty ideas that might just come true before you actually get home.
- Use erotically encouraging words to describe
exactly what you want and need to reach an intense orgasm. Hearing your
own words can be extremely exciting too.
- When internet dating, your first phone call is
extremely important. A seductive voice and flirtatious words can
stimulate an intense desire and sense of attraction for you.
- Engage in phone sex with your partner when you
are apart (or even in separate rooms). Keep long distance relationships
hot and passionate.
- Leave naughty voice messages that will make
your lover rush home craving your touch.
- Record a sexy story or fantasy on your computer
and download it to your lover's MP3 player or iPod. Since many play
videos now, you can even use a webcam to record a sexy video of yourself
telling the erotic story.
- Stimulate your lover's erotic imagination while
you are making love. With their eyes closed, take them into a fantasy
with your voice.
- When engaging in soft bondage play using a
blindfold, use your voice to tease and tantalize your submissive lover.
Describe what you are going to do before you do it (or surprise them and
do something total unexpected).
Remember that you are using dirty talk to
excite both your self and your lover. However, keep in mind that, for some
people, certain words have emotional triggers to bad memories. If you do hit
a nerve, learn from each other and adapt. When you are open and honestly
communicate about sex, you will both feel empowered and more willing to
express your erotic desires. Learn to make love with words and you will be
able to ignite sexual fireworks with hot mental foreplay.
Discover how you can use the power of your
voice to build sexual tension, increase passion and even trigger intense
orgasms with almost hypnotic control. You will be amazed at the sexual
pleasures you unleash when you unlock the secrets of talking dirty.
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